She makes a wish on every single star she sees, somewhere deep down she still believes.

Saturday, October 5, 2013

People change and things go wrong


People are more difficult to work with than machines. And when you break a person, he can't be fixed.
The Battle of Labyrinth
Life is not perfect and so we are, fortunately. How fortunate it is if people could understand this imperfection which I think everybody has experience(s) on it. Being cruel to people who you hate, I believe that you are not hating him or her, but his or her attitude(s), right? I guess that is right.

Knowing this imperfection, we also live by our own choices and maybe some other choices which were decided by parents or on family demand. Life is full of choices. Branches here and there. To do this or not to do this. Too many 'or's until we choose to have the simplest job to do, yet to expect the most rich and satisfied reward. They do not really match each other, right? 

Just like seasons, people change. Sometimes, it is not the people itself, but the feelings within the person that influence his or her mind greatly. We often blame others for any wrongs. But do we check ourself and try to put ourself as the person at fault. I believe that we could feel if the fault comes from us. We have our own sixth sense. We know what we are doing, but it does not mean we are on the right track. Even a simple essay must be shown to our lecturers to check either we are on the right track and answer the questions.

It is like we have known each other for almost five years, and you know each more than five years. You might have bickering with each other along the years. And now, you have that kind of responsibility given by us. We believe that you can do it and that's why we agree on you.

Sincerity. Seriously a simple word, but how many of us can really understand its concept? Try to think about it. When is your last time doing things sincerely? Remember? Forgot? Ask yourself.

You know, most of us are not the mind reader. We do not know what you are thinking. But at least we can guess it. Your face expression, words, intonation and stress. We can read all that. We learn Linguistics! To care or not to care. Shakespeare himself could not make the decision. We meet people and we interpret. We talk and we analyse. Even a smile can create rumbles in your mind, right?

I have read some articles lately because I think I really need them. I need some readings. This brain of mine is too dry, literally saying. Too lack of meaningful motivation to bring me up. First thing first is to fully admit we really need help. We have friends everywhere. No man is an island. Tell them if we need help. Not to embarrass ourself for seeking some help, but to relieve and less our so-called burden. 

See some (countless) good things around us. Do wonder about it. Even the blue sky up there could give you a lesson. A wordless lesson as everything goes within yourself. Do say positive words and zero cursing words. Sorry, it is really unpleasant to hear. 

And, that is why life is not perfect. Embrace what we have and change for better future. People change, but life goes on. Cheers!